Here in Saint Louis, as well as in Illinois, we are recovering from the tragedy of shootings of five at a community counsel meeting followed by others, randomly shot at Northern Illinois Univeristy. Events as these can give a deep sense of helplessness, fear, and frustration.
Is it possible that out of tragedy, a deeper stirring of consciousness and hope can arise? These shootings are grave concerns. Will the solution be one of shame and blame, or is it possible to achieve an understanding the underlying causes so as to rise above it. Can we honor those who have died by treating this as a stimulus to create a healthier, saner, society?
Human Development experts, such as Urie Bronfrenbrenner and James Garbarino (1999), predicted this kind violence more than 25 years ago. They believed it resulted from the fragmentation in our society
that deprives individuals of a sense of connection, a feeling of being heard, and a sense of community and accountability.
The incidents themselves give rise to a greater community consciousness. When we see the impact
of the damage, a new awareness emerges. There is a need for identifying these kinds of problems early. No longer can the self interest of any one person be pursued at the expense of the greater whole. This is true whether it is in a personal relationship, a family, or in society as a whole.
Often there is the belief that the change needs to come from strong leadership, or a power from
outside ourselves. Beyond the strong need for immediate protection, a more long-term solution may result from an increased awareness within ourselves to take small constructive actions to promote connection and community, one moment at a time, right where we are.
We can choose to look at what we have and the strengths that exist within ourselves and within
our communities. This gives us an opportunity to rethink, release old patterns, and begin to
grow anew. Later, we are able to look back at the situation, and determine what has been
accomplished and gained.
It is a matter of perspective. What is yours?
Garbarino, J. Lost Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How We Can Save Them. NY: Anchor Books, 1999.
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